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PornDude, I want to fuck a real guy for free! Can these gay sex dating sites help me out for a hookup?

They sure can if you know how to use them.

Online dating is still a popular format for finding love, sex and everything in between. With so many destinations out there that allow you to join and potentially find what you're after, how can you get to the bottom of which one is ideal for your circumstances?

The good news is that I can just help you by cutting out hours of research as I've done the dirty work on your behalf. Each and every dating platform here I've been a part of and taken a look at in quite a lot of detail.

I want you to be confident with the site that you join, which is why I put so much effort into checking these destinations out. I've reviewed all of them and written what I think to be pretty high-quality coverage of each gay dating site – I encourage you to read my thoughts and also have a glance at the pros and cons of each destination.

At the end of the day, I want you to be confident that the dating site for gays you join is the best.

What kind of gay people can I meet here?

Whoever signs up, of course. On the positive side, that means that you get to see all kinds of gay guys who fit into nearly every body type, age, and sexual interest category. On the downside, that means that you get to see all kinds of gay guys who fit into nearly every body type, age, and sexual interest category.

So, you’ll find gym rats, young studs, tight-holed twinks, big-bellied daddies, furry otters, all of whom can be charming, demanding, creepy, or horny. Some of them might be all of this at the same time.

No webmaster or app developer can ever guarantee ideal results and each experience is unique to each individual. These are hook up sites, after all, and not mathematical formulas which promise you'll get laid – you've got to put in an effort to connect with the people you want.

As for the assholes, spammers, and douche bags, all of these platforms have a block button for a reason.

There's a lot of fake crap online! Why should I trust you?

Because I have a passion for porn and I've been at this for years. Since founding both the original Porn Dude site and My Gay Sites, I've been bringing readers completely honest and unfiltered reviews of all of the porn and porn related studios, forums, and other websites and tell you what I think, while I do network with some of these websites (only the best ones), that doesn't stop me from telling you what I really think about them.

Don’t believe me?

Then read any of the articles I’ve ever written for this site or The Porn Dude. I’m certain yoiu’ll find the same sardonic, brash, and completely honest. And just like all of those articles, you’ll find the exact same attitude here.

Moving on, I’ve done reviews on all of these apps and “dating” (read: meet and hookup) websites before, but to save you time, I’ll sum up the features, cost, and other neat aspects of these platforms below.

Out Personals – Let's start with a trusted name in the gay hookup game. With this site, you are connected with the people you're most likely to have sex with – the dudes living around you. So long as you have an account you can see their pictures and stats including approximately where they are all for free. To send anyone messages though, you're going to have to spend a little coin.

Sure, there are some website which don't have that requirement, but given the type of dudes that use sites like this, I'd recommend it for men in rural areas. Most gays out in the boondocks aren't too keen about posting their intimate details on a popular app with the possibility that any person can talk to them. Instead, I've found that if they feel comfortable on a platform which requires payment to chat with other users, they are more likely to let their guard down and flirt with other gays in their area.

Adam4Adam – Launched way back in 2003, this is an older website but still a good on to check out. To compete with other, younger sites, not to mention the flood of apps, Adam4Adam has gone through several incarnations which have only improved the website.

On your profile, you can not only list all of your basic states (like build, dick size, location) but also what you are looking for in extremely blunt terms like chatting, dates, or hookups. If you are hungry for some cock and just want to get laid, you can specify when you're likely to be horny and when people should contact you which takes a ton of guesswork when you're chatting up other guys.

To cut down on other forms of confusion, you can switch your profile from "Home" indicating that you're in or around your local area or "Visitor" which indicates that your visiting someplace.

This website is free to use, and they've even got a mobile version which you can download through the app store. Paid membership is a little pricey, but with 70,000 users and counting, this platform is certainly worth considering getting a membership with.

Hornet – Being a part of the biggest gay social network has its advantages. For one, the sheer pool of other guys you can cuddle puddle with is pretty awesome -- even if you live in the middle of bum fuck nowhere you can still find someone to bum fuck you. Second, the profiles are optimized so that you can connect with other dudes of similar interest…and avoid awkward encounters like getting two exclusive bottoms being paired together. In addition to having a great profile setup process, you can also join communities simply by using a hashtag like #gaymers, #travelers, #foodies, and more.

Third, once you’ve loaded up your account with pictures, your information, and have joined some communities you can forward your profile to other users you fancy. Thinking about going to a different city for business or pleasure? Then drop a pin in that city so you can get a sample of all of the other Hornet users in that area.

Besides that, there are several tools which allow you to filter through the impressive number of guys who use this app. On top of all of that, you can also use the FOLLOW feature to keep up with what your favorite guys are doing on the app.

(Of course, users can only see the stuff which you choose to post in Hornet, so you don’t have to worry about stalkers.)

Moving on, this app keeps you up-to-date with the gay community as a whole by forwarding news stories which focus on queer issues. Further, Hornet has some stuff which most apps and even dating websites don’t have. For example, there are reviews posted by other users for different travel destinations.

And get this: you get all of these features for free!

With all of these awesome features, I would say you should pony up some cash for a subscription, which is only $7.99 a month. That's about half of what most other gay hookup apps cost.

25 million happy users can’t be wrong – so sign up today.

Manhunt – Another classic website which has been getting gay dudes laid for years, Manhunt has all of the basics and more. It's totally free to join with a basic membership; you can chat up several guys in 24 hours either through direct message or in one of their many chat rooms.

Just like A4A, with the advent of smartphone apps, participation on this site has dipped quite a bit. However, to keep up with the times and stay competitive, Manhunt's designers have added some nice, new features. For instance, some apps will actually charge you to filter your search results. ManHunt, on the other hand, will not only let you do this for free but has one of the most robust search engines I've seen on a hookup website. You can not just enter into specific stats like height, ethnicity, and dick size, but even whittle down your searches to the zip code you're hoping to find your next boy toy in.

To get unlimited profile views, one-on-one worldwide video chat, and full picture galleries though, you're going to have to upgrade to a paid account. If you're in a smaller area, I wouldn't recommend shelling out cash for these features, but if you're living in a major metro area, you should totally pay to get access to the full list of features that this site has to offer.

Happy hunting. >:)

Grindr – This freemium app is the most popular hookup app on the market for a reason.

Now if you read some of the reviews of Grindr on the app store, you might not get that impression. Of course, most of those one-star assessments have been written by salty queens who are pissed off that they can't get laid.

But fuck them…no pun intended.

While some of the people on it maybe losers, the app itself works great. While minimalist, you can search and chat up guys who are geographically near you. In addition to talk, you can trade pics, exchange information and favorite this person if you think you’d like to see their pickle.

A relatively new feature allows you to tap a guy who will alter him even if he's offline. The tap options are three emjois: hi!, fire, and smiley devil. There's no official meaning for these symbols, and it's really left up to the user's imagination to figure out what the guy meant.

I should mention that some guys like using this feature and being tapped in kind, while others absolutely hate it. In fact, some dudes block other blokes over just one tap, so be sure to read profiles. Most guys announce how they want you to chat them up on their page.

In addition to chatting with guys around you can search for dude's by height, weight, and other traits, though to unlock these features fully you'll need to have a paid account. And to get rid of all the damn ads, you're going to have to upgrade your account. Fortunately, Grindr provides specials on paid memberships all of the time.

Planet Romeo – The majority of the apps and sites on this list are hookup platforms passing themselves off as dating service providers. But Planet Romeo is kind of the opposite. It sure can be used to connect with other guys for the purpose of getting laid but is primarily geared for dudes who are in the mood for something more long-term.

In addition to using GPS features to see who is closest to you can also rank other users based on your own preferences. You can "cruise" the site, which allows you to see who is checking out your profile and there are special zones which allow you to exchange X and XXX content. However, the rest of the site is a bit "cleaner" and is oriented towards cultivating romantic relationships, not just randy ones.

Since sign up is free, you can use the website on your desktop, and since there is also an app available on Android and IOS devices, I’d recommend trying out this service if you’re trying to land your next beau…or even get laid by a beautiful man.

Gaydar – Is your natural gaydar broken? Don't worry. There's an app for that. After all, with so many closet cases, shy guys, and shifty queens out there, not to mention all of the wishful thinking you might engage in when lusting over a hot straight boys, it can be hard to make the determination is someone really is gay.

Like other services on this list, this app is totally free to use, but unlike others, you can connect not only with your email but also using your Facebook account information. By using this data, the app constructs a homepage which is personalized for you and streamlines the process of chatting up other guys and, eventually, getting laid.

If you want to upgrade for just a few bucks a month you get unlimited searches; you'll see who is looking at your profile, you get access to both public and private pics, all without any pesky ads to get in your way.

As great as this app is, you might want to consider just using the trial version first, before committing to a subscription. I bring this up because like a lot of other similar apps in this saturated market you're going find that there aren't too many guys in your area depending on where you live.

Squirt – You know with a title like this that this site doesn’t mess around. They’re not trying to hide behind the pretentious facade that this site has anything to do with dating, but is all about finding guys to hook up with.

Since it’s so popular, this website and app ensemble has specialty sub-sites for the United States, UK, Australia, and other countries so you can hone in on guys and gay-oriented events in your area.

Unlike a lot of other dating sites, you can only get a free account for a limited time. After ten days of no charge use, you're going to have to start shelling out cash for unlimited access. However, there are a few ways you can extend your free access.

For instance, if you post a Squirt banner on your own blog or website you get a one-time upgrade of a free account for fifteen days. Got a talent for writing stories? Then submit an original, erotic tale or two through their Cocktale program. If it’s awarded a 4-star rating then congrats (!) and enjoy fifteen day Fan Club upgrade.

If you spot some kind of fuckery going on like people setting up sock puppet accounts or a profile which appears to be a bot, then report it and get anywhere from one to five days free. If you go cruising (on a pleasure ship, not down by the bars) and take some high-quality photos you might get 30 days access to the Fan Club features. Or if there is a gay-friendly cruise line that the Squirt webmasters missed, alert them and get either one business or full week of Squirt.com access free of charge.

Bareback RT – Pop some PrEP and engage you enemas gentlemen, from the title and the homepage which features two dudes butt fucking bare, this is another website which doesn't beat around the bush…at least in a certain figurative sense. The premise is simple: find other guys in your area who are as addicted to condom-less sex as you are. Besides the website, you can download the mobile, too. Both of them are free and despite being in need of a few upgrades here and there, should be good enough to get what you want out of a platform like this.

Elite Singles – This is another site which actually does cater to guys looking for dates and not just dick. Not to say that there is anything wrong with that, but if you do find yourself tired of being single even and feeling like you’re alone, even after having half a dozen men inside you during your regular weekend orgy, you might want to consider using this platform.

There aren’t any XXX pics, but rather wholesome photos of handsome boys who are looking for other gentlemen to get to know with the end goal of dating short- or long-term. Hell, in the era of gay equality in most of the civilized world, a good number of these dudes are probably looking to get married. If you are too then you’ve get plenty of tools to use once you sign up.

The most notable among these is the site's intelligent matchmaking program which compiles statistical data about you derived from your responses to a complete personality test and compares it with other singles on the site. Unlike hook apps which ultimately come down to whether or not you both swiped right or one of the two of you sent a dick pic or flirty message, Elite Singles' software will set you up with between three to seven matches per day for you to peruse at your leisure. This scientific approach to dating takes so much hassle and guesswork making it so much easier to find the man of your dreams.

Since this site appeals to the professional men seeking men crowd the guys on this website are highly educated and typically mature, and so range between 30-55 and a whopping 82% have Bachelor's degrees or higher academic accolades. So, if that describes you, or what you are into, then this is the place for you to be.

Daddy Hunt – Got a taste for older men? Then check out Daddy Hunt. Being geared towards men who’re into guys with a little (or a lot of gray) hair, years of experience in matters of love and lust, and have that distinct old man musk, sign up to this site immediately. Obviously geared toward getting older men and the boys who love together, you don’t have to worry about running into bitchy twinks or narcissistic gym studs. On this niche website, everyone respects their elders. Of course, the good little boys who behave themselves get plenty of loving, too.

In addition to daddy types, this site is intended for near middle-aged otters, bears, even grandpas and the guys who admire them in all of their mature glory.

Like other websites, sign up is completely free, though if you want to take full advantage of everything that Daddy Hunt offers you, you’ll want to upgrade to a paid account. Fortunately, though, the price tag ain’t too bad. And with over a million members and more signing up all the time, you’ll be glad to join Daddy Hunt.

Recon – Got a fetish? Well, I suppose technically we all do, but do you have a real kink side to you, are you more of a (sexually) extreme person, do rubber gloves, and a jar of Crisco give you a raging stiffy? Is so, and you want to find guys who're into the same twisted shit as you check out Recon. Whether it's rubber, bondage, leather, candle wax, role-playing, or general BDSM, this doesn't discriminate when it comes to the kind of kink its users want to promote and have fun with…just as long as you are eighteen.

While there isn’t a certain type that the webmasters are appealing to, a lot of the dudes here are dedicated to bulking up and piling pounds of muscle onto their often hairy bodies. And from what I can tell, the man candy buffet is all real. And by “real,” I mean that the photos you see are of the guys themselves and not photoshopped or of some celebrity. I know this because Recon’s algorithms are designed to fish out and spot any picture already found on the net. So, there are lower chances you are going to run into scammers, cat-phishers, or flakes. Yay!

Being devoted to kink, Recon popularizes loads of BDSM and fetish events all over the world, but especially those in San Francisco. Go figure…

Despite being more of a niche site, Recon does have quite a selection of men to choose from. In fact, there are over 65,000 users last I checked with more joining all of the time.

Gay Royal – Since this website comes in English, French, German, Spanish, Italian and Dutch versions, you know two things about Gay Royal. First, this website was put together by a professional team. Second, there are tons of other users to talk to. Yeah, sure using a website which doesn't have an app can seem a little outdated these days, bit if it ain't broken there's no reason to stop using it. After all, a net cast wider pulls in more fish.

So, if you want a better chance of catching some more cock thirsty man-does, join the Royal family and become a member today.

Silver Daddies – If you’re into more mature guys, then you might be happy just using Daddy Hunt. However, if it’s granddads that you’re after, then you’re going to need to use Silver Daddies. Like the title suggests, this website is a platform for significantly older men and the younger guys who appreciate their wisdom, experience, and cocks.

In addition to dating profiles, there are entire galleries of these dudes which are divided up into “Daddy” and “Younger” categories so no matter which one you fit into, it’s easier for you to find what you want and advertise yourself. Furthermore, with this website, you can post your own personal ad, check out the other men, and chat them up all day long for free!

Grommr – Following in the tradition of Grindr, this dating platform seems to follow the same naming convention: that being descriptor followed by the suffix -r. I say seems to because I had no idea what niche this platform was appealing to at first glance. Now that I know, I’m still not sure what to make of the name.

Anyway, if you haven't figured it out Grommr is a niche site for guys who either are or are into super chubs, big-bellied bros, muscle but chunk men and gainers. There are nearly 80,000 members as of right now, and there are thousands of guys online at any one time. So, if you're exclusively into guys who have a little something extra you can pinch or are just plain obese, this is the platform for you to be.

Bear WWW – The name should give you a pretty good idea of what you are in for on this platform. This site is all about connecting with bears, chubs, and the occasional chubster. The site’s design looks like it was developed about a decade and a half ago, but it still works pretty well.

All of the usual dating and hookup features are on this website as well as a few unique bonuses. For instance, since bear culture is so strong in the gay community but also a bit exclusive, Bear WWW often lists bear-oriented and similar fur-friendly events happening all over the world. Not only is this an exciting feature which keeps you up to date with the community, but it’s yet another way that Bear WWW provides you with opportunities to meet up with other guys.

On top of that, my research has shown that the guys on here are genuinely friendly and open. Further, they generally aren't flaky, bitchy or shallow, unlike some of the asshats you might find on Grindr or Adam4Adam. Who knew that rugged manly men would be such teddy bears?

Having said that, the site is long overdue for an upgrade and needs to have some other features added to it in my opinion. Still, being a free to use website which only requires a quick registration process, you might want to consider it if you're looking to get your bear on.

Bear 411 – Otters, chubs, and bears, oh my! This site is exclusively for dudes of any age who (though most of them are on the older side) both are and like mean with just a little bit extra meat on their bones and have a healthy layer of hair on their hides. In addition to registering as a single person, you can also sign up as a couple if you’re looking for a third (or fourth or fifth) to play with.

That said, the site design could be improved in a number of ways which I've talked about in my full review, linked below. So, if you do sign up, don't expect a flawless user experience. Still, getting an account is free, and if you can get past the design flaws, you should have a good time getting down and dirty with other hairy, heavy men.

Dudes Nude – Featuring a super simplistic design, this website’s pages aren’t too exciting to look at. Once you get past the homepage featuring an attractive, young Adonis, there’s nothing out of the ordinary about Dudes Nudes. You can sign up for free and share pictures, videos, and profile into, and…that’s about it. There aren’t any special gimmicks, no unique features, and there’s no niche or fetish that this platform is supposed to appeal to. It’s no horrible or anything and certainly doesn’t seem to be a scam site, but it ain’t anything special either. But like I’ve said before, if you’re looking to maximize your chances of getting dates and dick, you might want to post some profile info quick just in case.

How do I become a “Don Juan” like you, PornDude?

You can’t become a Don Juan, you’re born one!

Or at least I used to think that.

To be honest, anyone can with the confidence and assertiveness, become a lady’s man…or rather man’s man. Of course, you don’t want to be a creep when chatting people up online and not ask for dick pics every other volley of texting.

On that note, don’t think that everyone wants to see a picture of your penis when you initiate a new conversation. You may think that your dick is a picture of perfection, but I know enough about gay guys to know that an individual queer dude’s preference may differ a lot from another guys.

So, be careful who you send you dick pics to, especially when you expect them to want to fuck right away. Hell, even with my marvelous dick, even I can't get away with that all of the time. Instead, I'd send pictures of your face (if it isn't already on your profile) and shots of you outside having fun, showing off your physique or enjoying your life.

Having a rock hard body and devilish good looks helps a lot, too. If you don't have that or think you could use some improvement like most of us do, then hit the gym up regularly. Not only will you get a body that most dudes are into but you're in a prime hookup spot. I'm not even gay, and I know that your phone will be blowing up with messages in or around a workout facility.

PornDude, I'm finally going to lose my anal cherry! Any other advice, dick whisperer?

Don’t be silly; wrap your willy! There’s enough disease floating around out there, so be safe while you are having fun. Plus, twenty minutes of fun fucking time isn’t worth a lifetime of consequences. But other then that, that’s all the wisdom I have to depart to you for free.

If you want more instruction message me and I’ll be sure to charge you a reasonable rate per hour. ;)